Thursday, 23 October 2014



There is something that possibly ranks higher than love for me and that is loyalty.. true loyalty is born from an unconditional love, a connection that has you want to ride out any ups and downs that life chucks at you to ensure that person stays in your life and is the happiest you can make them given any circumstance.

I am a fiercely loyal person. I take attacks on my friends to heart like they were my own. When my friends are upset I stress about them and when they are just not right I worry about them until I see them smile again.

I would drop anything and go anywhere for a friend in need and I am lucky enough to have a husband that gets that and would do just the same.

I wrote a post a while back about how it is ok to loose friend ships and I still stand by the fact that it is but I do think that if the friendship was true that you would want to fight for it, you would want to work through it and pop out the other side stronger.

It was my birthday this week and there were a few well wishes missing since last year due to lost connections. It could have made me sad but it didn't. I feel so lucky to have had the ones that were not loyal enough to fight fall by the way side leaving me with the quality people to surround myself with.

I always have an amazing reflective day on big occasions as they are yearly and you can really look back at where you were 12 months before and compare. I choose to always find the good in the year and lets just leave the shitty past bits as in the past.. 'cos they are shit so no need to take them forward into the future huh?!

Are you a loyal friend? Has it stung you? Do you reflect much? 

Tuesday, 21 October 2014

The people that make you want to be a better person....


The other day I was over on Kontent Blog sharing my favourite link right now and this was it...

Tessa White Chooses Her Favourite Link

This is the instagram account of Mark Bustos, a hairdresser to the stars who works 6 days a week and then on Sundays goes out to the streets and offers homeless people a haircut. He simply says to each person,‘I want to do something nice for you today’.

His feed reminds me of H.O.N.Y but I find it even more uplifting, as the responses from those that he touches are always positive and his haircuts are amazing; they truly transform the person and I have no doubt it works as much on the inside as it does on the outer. 

Who would ever guess this guy was homeless?'

What will you do today to make someone feel special? 

Sunday, 19 October 2014

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Wednesday, 15 October 2014

So Mum are you angry with her?


Do you ever have days where you have to explain the unexplainable to your kids? I did the other day..

I come home from a day with my little lady and we see a package on the deck.. Kitty hops across and shouts.. ‘it says Totally Hooked Mum’..’ What?’ “ Are you sure?”..

I go to investigate and start muttering ‘oh she is so silly’ ‘ thats naughty’ ‘so unnecessary’ ‘quite ridiculous’

“What Mum?’ 

“Oh sorry Kitty, you know that lovely lady we met at the markets the other day that you bought your neon basket from?’ she nods.. ‘Well Mummy has been sorting out some business cards for her last week and she has delivered this beautiful basket to say Thank you’

'So Mum are you angry with her? Why are you angry if she is saying Thank you?’ 

‘Because she is too nice sweetheart, I am not angry just amazed at how lovely she is and saying she is naughty because she has done something nice she need not have done’

* Cue confused face and about 50 more questions as she followed me around the house whilst I moved everything around so I could have it pride of place in my favourite vignette spot!

Its a funny thing to explain to my kids why I admire the things I do in people or why I someone who outwardly appears amazing is really not all that but it is one I enjoy as it has us discussing people and their inner beauty instead of the outer that so often gets spoken about more..

Do you chat with your kids about what really make someone beautiful? 

Monday, 13 October 2014

Wild about Watermelon

The pineapple decor trend is showing no signs of disappearing , but there are a few other plants and fruits hot on their heels ... and watermelon is numero uno. Lets see how to get wild about watermelon with new seasons fashion, homewares and more.

 1. Watermelon headband

Watermelon headband Even if your little person was acting up a treat you would never be able to stop a smile breaking if you turned to see them in this Kapow Kids Watermelon Headband ($14.95)

2. Watermelon vase

Lovestar watermelon vase A cluster of these Lovestar Watermelon vases ($99) would add a fruity cocktail to your walls year round.  

 3. Watermelon wallpaper

wallpaper-1 The full wall or just a feature strip, this Jimmy Cricket watermelon Wallpaper ($40) is oh so cute. I have seen a few people decorate the back of bookcases with it too, which looks amazing!  

 4. Watermelon cookies

cookies We all know the kids will be rushing to eat their fruit when it comes in the form of watermelon Cookies! No special cookie cutter required, get the how-to from Glorious Treats.  

 5. Watermelon lamp

lamp-1 This Heico watermelon Lamp ($198) looks so realistic it's good enough to eat. Not a bargain price for a child's room, but it would age with the kids. Hey, I would like one now and I am nearer to 40!  

 6. Happy watermelon cushion

watermelon cushion I totally adore the whole collection from House of Wonderland but the Happy Watermelon Cushion ($37) just, well, makes me happy!  

 7. Missie Munster romper

romper-1 Perfect for the warmer months for little ones. The Missie Munster watermelon romper ($39.95) might even hide some of the juicy dribbles from eating Watermelon all summer long.  

 8. Watermelon Wall Decals

decal Pops of Pink that you can peel and reveal. These removable watermelon decals ($42.95) by Speckled House would be a fab idea for renters.  

 9. Watermelon Watch

watch-1 Possibly a little early to think Christmas but um, hello, the ultimate stocking stuffer? This Watermelon Watch ($39) by May28th is so cute and useful at the same time. (Time ... you see what I did there?)  

 10. Watermelon wood print

I carried a watermelon Channel your best Dirty Dancing lines with this 'I carried a watermelon' wood print ($60).  

 11. Watermelon juice

Watermelon Juice A kick of ginger and mint will take your fresh watermelon juice up a notch. Here's a recipe.  

 12. Watermelon pillowcase

watermelon pillowcase Do you get hungry during the night? Have a midnight snack with a watermelon pillowcase ($32). Sweet dreams!

What is your fruit of flavour? I think bananas are pretty cool too...