So here it is... I am a little bit fickle. In saying that it is in a pretty minor way and only really gives me grief, no one else. You see I am into good bods, not skinny but lean and healthy, muscular and strong..that sorta thing.
|No its not Daniel Craig....that is MY boy xx|
My husband is my James Bond, My Mc Dreamy and on a physical level not just the soul mate thing. We met at the gym which was a good place to meet given my fetish!! Sooo whilst in our early years back when we were 20 we never needed chat about what we expected of our bodies in the future when we came to marriage 5 years later I actually said to him "you know along with all my marriage promises I also want a clause that says if you get lazy and fat that I am allowed to go mental about it and let you have it". It was my sort of Invisible Ink Contract.
|Back in '97|
Well I didn't think that one through did I?!. Miss Fickle didn't put a sub clause that it doesn't go both ways OR that if I happened to fall pregnant one year and put on 20kgs (my kids were big) only to loose 15 of it just to fell pregnant with number 2 only 8 months later and then gain another 15 again..
I am not afraid of hard work that is for sure, checkout the pics and he has had his lulls from exercise too but I am continually thinking about that contract and the fact that if I expect him to keep himself looking hot for me that it is only fair I do the same. I don't really do make up as we have already discovered so my "thing" is keeping myself from having a saggy arse or muffin top... I beat myself up over it daily and I hate that I have such a sweet tooth as clearly this is never good when trying to keep your diet in check!!
..I am so grateful that I wrote that contract in Invisible Ink... Maybe Marcus can't actually see it and hopefully he doesn't remember it !!. Did you write any invisible contracts in your younger years that you are now struggling to stick too?