Wednesday, 15 August 2012

Do you let things brew?

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I am such a stewer.. I am so bothered by words or even actions.. Someone says something and I let is fester. I let it grow and become something bigger than it needs be.

Of course recently it is all about work and my baby, the website.. oh you cant say wrong about my baby.. she is the best in the world!. No she is not but she will be up there one day. How do I know? Because I listen to every piece of feedback, even if it feels like a stab in the heart and I go an fix it, I go and adapt it. I go and create it. Why? because if I don't those words fester and I looks at my baby like she is not the perfect chubby cheeked creation I envisioned.. it brews and I have to stop the brewing..

Actions are the same and some is hurtful but some so petty.

Today a motorbike drove past me cut me up whilst taking the kids to pre school, I was in a T3 lane and he came past shaking his head then held up a hand with three fingers took it to one and shook his head. I assume he hadn't seen my kids in the back and was saying I shouldn't be in the T3 lane.

He zoomed on up through the traffic and I was almost chasing him to have it out as I was outraged he thoughts I was doing the wrong thing (and ironically if it wasn't for the super cops at the bottom of that stretch constantly I would have been in in two kids or not). Of course I didn't catch up with him and of course it doesn't really matter that he thinks I was disobeying the law but listen to me.. 4 hrs later I STILL want to have it out with him!

Do you brew? Do you do anything about it?

8 comments:

  1. Best thing you can do for yourself is not rate him or his actions.
    Don't let him spoil your evening because he probably does that a lot so doesn't even remember it now. Idiots are everywhere......
    Tania xx

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    1. I totally agree Tania.. its a habit I am trying to break because as you say he is not worth rating...

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  2. Just thank your lucky stars he did not clean you up! Jerks like him are not worth wasting your precious energy on. You have a much more important agenda to braborted . Your babies and your life.

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    1. I reckon the fact that I let it bother me actually bothers me just as much.. something I must fix :)

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  3. I'm a stewer so I get exactly where you are coming from! I love your baby too - I always love what I buy and have a wish list a mile long!

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    1. Thank you Katy... those sorta comments make a Mumma very proud x

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  4. Betty A Harrington16 August 2012 at 06:18

    I don't stew any longer, wastes too much energy and in any case the people one tends to stew about are numpties with the mental capacity of a teaspoon, and spend their lives infuriating others for their own mindless kicks.
    Here is a good one, Monday this weekin central London a guy in a Range Rover overtook me in a two way road and tried to turn left across the front of my car but the lane was closed for the olympic traffic, so he tried to back up and nearly hit me again, he then jumped a red light and tried to turn left at the next junction...............that turn was also closed and who met him face on....THE COPS IN THEIR SQUAD CAR...what goes around comes around....I was still laughing about it the next day !!!!!!

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    1. Ba ha ha.. Mum that gave me a giggle.. I can just see him doing it all at hyper speed to and to no avial... Soooo London Darling!!

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