Monday, 31 March 2014

I don't do grudges...

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I used to when I was at school but that is just it.. they are childish and immature, more than that they are a waste of energy. I can't be bothered to use up valuable time being negative and focused on crappy behaviour by another person when I could spend it being happy and thinking nice thoughts (how hippy of me hey?!)

I come across some very average attitudes in business (personal too of old but not so much these days as I have a pretty gorgeous tribe). There are often those you go out of your way to help only to get no thanks, a complaint despite the effort or worst of all have them completely disregard your time and do something that shows they didn't even value the relationship you had created with them.

It used to leave me grumpy and sad for quite a while, it used to have me never wanting to help others for fear of a repeat and sometimes I even wanted to scream and shout but I didn't and I don't

Their attitude is the crap one and they are the ones loosing out. I go right along and ignore it these days knowing I did everything I could and can sleep at night knowing I tried.

I don't bear a grudge.. I just know that person is well and truly due absolutely no good karma from me and that I will move on and spread my love elsewhere.

I am a girl with a lotta love and I get lots of chances to spread it far and wide in business so more fool them I say. Life is too short to allow crapness to consume it. Onwards and Upwards I say :)

Do you bear grudges? Some of my mates do as they say they just cant see past it.. I get it, I do. I just don't do it anymore. 

59 comments:

  1. I like to think I dont - I used to, but I try not to anymore. That said I forgive but never forget and I sulk ;) xx

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  2. Good for you Tessa! I am much better than I was too but there are some arrows that still pierce:)

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  3. Oh honey.. I can sulk amongst the best of them and I also never forget.. thats part of the loss of karma bit :)

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  4. Love that.. I certainly still get pierced.. I am just pull those buggers out extra quick :)

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  5. I don't hold grudges at all.

    More often than not, Dave has had to REMIND me why I'm supposed to be angry with someone.

    I just have that kind of personality where a lot washes over me, & I'm grateful for that laid-back'ness, because it has meant a really happy life (despite a lot of character building sh*t thrown in for good measure) ;)

    x x x

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  6. This prize would be a really special something for my 2nd baby due to arrive in August. I know its normal, but I feel like this babe is becoming the 'hand me down' baby. Would love some new things as well.

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  7. This would definitely brighten up the nursery which currently looks like a packed storeroom!

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  8. I'd love to win this for my cousin who is due with her much loved and awaited baby any day now. They don't live close by and I miss them so much.

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  9. New baby in our bedroom at present but looking forward to decorating her room. These would be great inspiration.

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  10. I would love to give this to my beautiful sister who has just moved in to a new house and is expecting her first baby this year. She would adore the fresh colours to set the scene for her baby's nursery.

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  11. Gorgeous! Divine! Adorable! Positively uplifting! Words to describe a new born bubba and likewise this baby gift. Would love this for my two dear friends expecting their first born via IVF.

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  12. Have pinned this blanket many times! Perfect for my smiley, elephant loving baby boy! Would tie in perfectly with his animal, grey and aqua nursery!

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  13. I would love to win this amazing gift it would bless some one who is a first time mummy who is unable to buy such a loverly gift for themselves cheers :)

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  14. Oh my little Ellie cherub would love that mobile. I can see us snuggling into that blanket for story time now!

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  15. I love these adorable items! I'm about to have much longed for second bub and friends having their first bubs and i'd love to share.

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  16. My little Man would adore the mobile, he is currently drowning in a sea of lemon coloured accessories passed down from his sisters.

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  17. A dear friends little girl, she is gentle and has the widest eye, ready to drink in all beautiful things....

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  18. Bub is still in our room, six months later, due to renovations, so this would be something special just for his little corner!

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  19. My nephew, who's due at the end of June...this would make a beautiful welcome to the world gift!

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  20. With our very first treasure due in May, this
    gorgeous bundle would be the perfect addition to our gender neutral nursery!

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  21. I have my first little one finally on the way (after some set backs), due in August and haven't bought a thing yet!

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  22. I adore this turquoise and mint colour palette! My second little bambino is due on the 11th of this month and I know he will find these beautiful Jolie Petite creations calming and special!

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  23. Wilson is the little guys name,
    This gorgeous bundle he'd love to claim!
    So inlove with grey and mint,
    Hope you guys get the hint!

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  24. My son is due in 8 weeks, I've had the grey and turquoise blanket pinned as one of my inspirations. It would be lovely to actually have something I've pinned! Thanks :)

    http://tarinobambino.blogspot.ca

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  25. Our little baby is due in 9 weeks - boy or girls is the big surprise! These neutrals would work perfectly in the nusery!

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  26. I love them both! They would be surprise gifts for a friend who has a gorgeous little boy.

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  27. We've just moved to accommodate our (surprise) baby boy. Being the final addition, I think he deserves something of amazing quality to call his own!

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  28. gorgeous! If I won a gorgeous little man yet to meet can enjoy these treasures

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  29. Theses are so precious. If we win I will be giving it our miracle baby due to join our family in August.

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  30. A little cherub to be born in June will be bundled up warm in a jacquard knitted blanket soon <3

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  31. 5 weeks early, tiny as can be,
    kept in special care nursery,
    a gift for Serena's little boy,
    who, when home, will bring much joy.

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  32. We have our last cherub boy due in five weeks and no boy decor for him as yet. Cutting it close for my lil man.

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  33. My sister-in-law just had baby boy twins. They've done a few months of hard yards in NICU. They 100% deserve this "forever" gift.

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  34. This bundle would be going to my first brand new nephew after what has been a stressful pregnancy for his Mum.

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  35. I'm a bit of a typical Virgo in the sense that I forgive but never really forget. I'm a very sensitive soul deep down. I can take things personally and can get my feelings hurt without the other person realising. As I get older, I'm beginning to realise it's not always about me - quite often, it's the other person with the issue.

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  36. I don't generally bear grudges, at least not in the long term. I might have a sulk for a bit, but I tend to try and move on and let it go as it doesn't do me any good to dwell on it for too long. I really believe that holding in all the negative energy can only be bad for our health

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  37. My sister is going to have a beautiful baby soon and my daughter would love to give her first cousin this amazing Baby Bundle!

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  38. Can't wait for my brother and sister in law to have a little girl!!! My niece <3

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  39. Ozzi Ian James, born with three special names. His gummy smile hugs my heart, his little giggle is musical art.

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  40. I'd love to win this amazing prize for my baby girl who turned 2 months today - what a beautiful gift it would be to celebrate her milestone!

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  41. I am 16 weeks pregnant with my first precious miracle and would love to give this absolutely beautiful gift to my precious little darling.

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  42. A baby boy is on the way, how sweet.
    All we need now is some Jolie Petite
    To wrap his little body in cuddles and love
    And trendy blankets and mobiles above.

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  43. Would love to win this beautiful bundle for my first born little cherub Maxwell, fingers crossed!

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  44. My darling son Max, arriving any day; a little Aries to warm up hearts. I'd love him to dream big beneath this mobile's lucky elephants.

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  45. We have two delightful little boys, who never received a special nursery. This would be delightfully exciting for our next addition! Baby's own special nursery!

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  46. This would bring so much joy to my best friend who just welcomed a baby boy.
    After trying for many years, she shed plenty of happiness tears!

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  47. I don't in most cases, but if it is something big, I find it hard to get past it. I'm working on it though. I don't think it's good for the soul.

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  48. I have no time for grudges, but also no time for super negative people.

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  49. I used to drive myself crazy with the "why are they doing this, why why why?" but now I don't have time to dwell on things and just move on and steer well clear of negative people...Mel x

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  50. I wouldn't say I bear grudges, but bitten by the same person too many times I will unapologetically move on from them and rarely let somebody back again. Perhaps you could say I don't bear grudges but I never forget! Sounds terrible when I write that down! x

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  51. I don't bear grudges as a rule … life's too short! I like to move on because there are far too many nice people in my world than to spend time and energy worrying about people who aren't nice!

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  52. No that is exactly me too It is called being wise!

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  53. Wise move, my thoughts exactly

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  54. exactly, the soul is what suffers!

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  55. I hear you, get my feelings hurt alot, I just move on and let it be these days

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  56. Hun, your life would be consumed with grudges if you et it thats probably why you don't :)

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